Sheâs talented, sheâs beautiful and sheâs married to one of the NFLâs hottest football players, New York Jets wide receiver Eric Decker. But there are a couple of misconceptions about Jessie James Decker.
Misconception No. 1: her image is too sexy, therefore sheâs mean or threatening. Sitting down with the mom of two revealed that this couldnât be further from the truth. Yes, sheâs sexy, but Jessie James Decker, 28, is far from mean or threatening. Turns out, sheâs warm, down to earth and very charming. Believe it or not, there was a time when female fans didnât like the petite singer/songwriter.
âMy first record deal, I had a really hard time with female fans,â Jessie tells Nash Country Daily. âThey didnât like me and I couldnât get girls to like me. It was so hurtful. It just didnât seem like they could get past, I guess, the image. I grew up in the South and I thought Southern girls were some of the sexiest girls Iâve ever seen in my life, so I didnât think it was a big deal, but women hated me. It was so bad they had to disable the comments section on CMT for my music videos.
âPart of why I did the showâ[Jessie and husband Eric starred in their own reality show Eric and Jessie: Game On on the E! channel]â was I felt like this would be a way for girls to get to know me and know that I might have a sexy image but I am just not like that,â Jessie adds. âI am not the girl thatâs gonna take your boyfriend or be a mean girl. Iâm such a girlsâ girl and I just want to help people and inspire other women and build confidence in girls, itâs so important to me. I think from doing the show, itâs changed my life. I am so appreciative of it because it did help and now all my fans are girls. 90 percent of them are females, and when you come to my shows, itâs all girls. If there are any guys itâs because they brought their boyfriends. Itâs all girls and itâs all I wanted my whole life.â
Misconception No. 2: Jessie is a pop artist who just decided to try country. Not true. Jessie started in country and always wanted to be a country singer, but fate led her career down a different pathâone she didnât necessarily want to go down, but found herself without many options.
Jessie Jamesâbefore getting married in 2013âhit the country music scene in 2009, releasing her self-titled album, which included her first single, âWanted.â The single reached the Top 40 on the Billboard country charts but went to number 23 on the Billboard pop charts, creating the perception that Jessie was a pop artist, not a country artist.
âYou know whatâs funny, it wasnât my intention to be that pop,â said Jessie. âI started coming to Nashville when I was 15, and it was my dream to be the next Shania Twain. I loved country music. I grew up in yodeling contests, it was my whole world. As soon as I graduated high school, I moved [to Nashville] from Georgia. I was writing with Jamey Johnson and Randy Houser and working with all these great people. I went to every label and got turned down by everybody. I was so heartbroken. Then all of a sudden my music kind of got out there and all these pop labels heard about me. I remember it being bittersweet. It was exciting, but at the same time I was like, âBut I want to be here. Iâm a little Georgia girl. I donât know how to deal with the pop stuff.â
âL.A. Reid was one of the pop producers that heard me. He flew me up to his office and I sang for him,â she recalls. âI sang a song called âMy Cowboy,â which was a song I wrote with Jamey Johnson and Randy Houser and it was produced by John Rich. L.A. was like, âYouâre country. Well letâs make a country record.â So I was really excited and I felt like, OK, maybe itâs gonna go that direction. Well, it just didnât go that direction. Before I knew it, I was in the studio with all these hip-hop producers and pop writers and I was crying. I got really sad because I just felt like this is not the plan. So I had to fight really hard to have the record be even as country as it was. And for that time period in pop, they were like, âThis is too country.â It was a battle to even have them play my music on pop because they thought it was too country.â
And there she wasâtoo country for pop and too pop for country. Jessie found herself in a place not knowing what to do. Her music was simply ahead of itâs time for country. âIf you listen to that first record now, it fits in really well, doesnât it?,â Jessie asks. And it does. Fast forward to today and Jessie is finding herself right where she wants to be.
âL.A. was such a big supporter of me and heâs the president of the label Iâm on now, again. He was always so supportive of me but I felt like it wasnât my time. Iâm glad it didnât work out because I got to really figure out the direction I needed to go in. My creativity and who I became as a woman really developed.
âI feel like my music now is exactly how I want to be portrayed and who I am. I really hope people donât think that I just woke up one day and decided Iâm going to be a country singer. I get so offended because itâs so far from the truth. Iâve been doing this for years and this is my heart and soul. I just had a little bit of a wrong turn. Iâm a country girl.â

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This country girl has a new album on the horizon that will include her latest single, âLights Down Lowââwritten by Jessie and Alyssa Bonaguraâwhich debuted at No. 38 on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart. The song, pulled straight from Jessieâs life, tells the story of a woman who just wants some quiet time alone with her man. And who wouldnât when youâre husband is Eric Decker.
âI was really inspired by my husband and our life together. We donât get to go out. Weâre at home with food all over us, changing dirty diapers and the house is a mess. To just get 30 minutes alone together, we cherish it because weâve got two babiesâtwo under 2â two diapers, two pacifiers. Itâs just a lot so I wanted to write something for other parents like us who donât get to go out and have those fancy dinners all the time so you have to make the most of it and have that moment together at home.â
To accompany the âLights Down Lowâ single, Jessie released an intimate video co-starring her 6â3âł husbandâsans shirtâwho turns out wasnât too difficult to convince to take the part in the video.
âThe alternative was another model with his shirt off all over his wife,â she says with a laugh. âHe was totally fine with doing it, he doesnât care.â
Married and a mother of twoâVivianne Rose, 2, and Eric Thomas II, 11 monthsâJessie realizes that motherhood has changed her. âIt makes me realize whatâs more important than anything. My music and my career are important to me but I never thought that I would care about something more. Ever since I had kids, if work interferes with Bubbyâs birthday or Viviâs singing in a recital or something, I canât do it, Iâm sorry. Thereâs no question. Theyâre number one and everything else doesnât matter anymore.â

Happy and content with her life now, the Georgia native is able to look forward to the next chapter in her music career. She is currently in the studio working on her next album, tentatively due out at the end of the year.
âPretty much the recordâs done,â she reveals. âThere are a couple more songs we might want to throw on there or work on but for the most part itâs done. Iâve written a bunch of songs. Iâve pretty much written everything on the record. Thereâs a couple that I wrote by myself which Iâm really excited about. Then there are probably two that will go on the album that I did not writeâMaren Morris [âMy Churchâ] wrote them. She sent me a couple songs and one of them was a song called âToo Young to Knowâ and then there was another one called âShoot Out the Lights.â Those will both be on my record and theyâre amazing songs.â
As far as the sound of the new album? âIt is very similar to what youâre hearing with âLights Down Low,'â said Jessie. âI want it to be a mix of fun, enjoyable and light but at the same time I want it to have depth because there is a very deep side to my music. Iâm a songwriter just as much as I am a singer and I feel like the songwriting, the lyrics and the messages that I get out are very important. Iâve evolved a lot since my first record dealâalmost 10 years agoâitâs crazy, but Iâm still me.â
And thatâs fine with us!
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